Friday, June 5, 2009
Hello readers… how r u…??? today I’m gonna talk about tabiat urg becinta di Brunei and why they failed in becinta… btw this are not the only factors why they failed but I just wanted u to know when there is no understanding between you and ur partner, ur relationship won’t work… Ok just imagine a car… The engine is in good condition but it runs out of fuel.. Will the car move?? For me understanding ur partner needs and emotion is like ingredients that u need to mix with ur love life.
1st Case: One of my fren came to me last 3 days… His name is Haji Badul (nama eksen)… Haji Badul is a very nice guy.. very funny and gorgeous… He works as an engineer… He has beautiful GF. And wat else..??? yang penting his life is OK lah… but he has one problem… He works at offshore as an engineer supervisor… He has a lil bit time for his family and GF.. At night after worked her GF asked him to call her.. Yeah he did do that but he was too tired… sometimes he slept during his GF talking to him on phone..!!! (Allahuakbar lalah jua tu) His GF is so disappointed with him… Their relationship last for only 1 yr plus..
2nd case: My fren name si Kamis (nick name nya MiRC) kiddin Lols… Also a good guy… His GF ani taste bis babu lah katakan. Ever since he furthers his study in one the college in Bandar Seri Begawan his relationship is in turmoil… His GF became more sensitive and capat marah.. Then one day there is a girl (classmate si kamis ) borrow kamis's HP charger di kelas. Later that night he went to Gadong with his GF si Masnah (nama GF si kamis di Kampung) lols.. Then this lady( the one who borrow his Hp charger) SMS si kamis saying “thank u…” Then start tia beceramah si Masnah ani..!!! “..eh mis kegatalan jua kau ani!!!! Inda dapatkah kau suruh ia minjam tempat urg lain…???? Kenapa kan u ani kan cari kelaie saja ni kan??? HAH!!!! Lanji bini2 atu. Mana number HP nya. Aku becakap sama ia!!!”. Kamis was stunned and very sad because their relationship almost 3 yrs sudah!!! Then few months after that incident they broke up!! Si Kamis can’t take it anymore… Huh wat a life…
Actually I got plenty of stories like above but it’s almost the same. When u don’t understand ur partner emotions and needs ur relations won’t going smooth. Like the first case (kes si Haji Badul) He had a hectic life. He works so hard to earn money but his GF don’t understand his situation!!!. Can his GF think logically how is it life as an engineer? If Haji Badul deosn’t work what can he gives to his family and GF?? INdakan bagi makan batu kali rite??? But when we look at his GF’s side it's not fair for her (sunyi kali ah)… Even though Haji Badul’s life is busy but he MUST finds times to talk to her because I knew true love need sacrifice. Auwwww…. LOLs but it’s true kali ah… At first masa becinta didn’t u ever promised to ‘love ur partner forever’ UHUKs Uhuks (nasib jua inda ku sampat janji hari atu LOLs kiddin) NOW mana tia janji atu?????
Take a look at second case. Kamis has problems regarding his GF's attitude towards him. Inda dapat sedikit abis si Kamis kana Marah. Even kawan si kamis kana call oleh GF nya sal luan penjelez (adakah patut!!!) Actually GF si Kamis love si Kamis berabis but She doesn’t know how to express her love. So she tried to be very protective but eventually it hurts both of them. So in my opinion UNDERSTANDING our partner’s emotion is a MUST. btw that's all for now. This is only part 1 so in part 2 i'll gives all of u some tips how to understand ur partner c ya ;) (to be continue...)
2nd case: My fren name si Kamis (nick name nya MiRC) kiddin Lols… Also a good guy… His GF ani taste bis babu lah katakan. Ever since he furthers his study in one the college in Bandar Seri Begawan his relationship is in turmoil… His GF became more sensitive and capat marah.. Then one day there is a girl (classmate si kamis ) borrow kamis's HP charger di kelas. Later that night he went to Gadong with his GF si Masnah (nama GF si kamis di Kampung) lols.. Then this lady( the one who borrow his Hp charger) SMS si kamis saying “thank u…” Then start tia beceramah si Masnah ani..!!! “..eh mis kegatalan jua kau ani!!!! Inda dapatkah kau suruh ia minjam tempat urg lain…???? Kenapa kan u ani kan cari kelaie saja ni kan??? HAH!!!! Lanji bini2 atu. Mana number HP nya. Aku becakap sama ia!!!”. Kamis was stunned and very sad because their relationship almost 3 yrs sudah!!! Then few months after that incident they broke up!! Si Kamis can’t take it anymore… Huh wat a life…
Actually I got plenty of stories like above but it’s almost the same. When u don’t understand ur partner emotions and needs ur relations won’t going smooth. Like the first case (kes si Haji Badul) He had a hectic life. He works so hard to earn money but his GF don’t understand his situation!!!. Can his GF think logically how is it life as an engineer? If Haji Badul deosn’t work what can he gives to his family and GF?? INdakan bagi makan batu kali rite??? But when we look at his GF’s side it's not fair for her (sunyi kali ah)… Even though Haji Badul’s life is busy but he MUST finds times to talk to her because I knew true love need sacrifice. Auwwww…. LOLs but it’s true kali ah… At first masa becinta didn’t u ever promised to ‘love ur partner forever’ UHUKs Uhuks (nasib jua inda ku sampat janji hari atu LOLs kiddin) NOW mana tia janji atu?????
Take a look at second case. Kamis has problems regarding his GF's attitude towards him. Inda dapat sedikit abis si Kamis kana Marah. Even kawan si kamis kana call oleh GF nya sal luan penjelez (adakah patut!!!) Actually GF si Kamis love si Kamis berabis but She doesn’t know how to express her love. So she tried to be very protective but eventually it hurts both of them. So in my opinion UNDERSTANDING our partner’s emotion is a MUST. btw that's all for now. This is only part 1 so in part 2 i'll gives all of u some tips how to understand ur partner c ya ;) (to be continue...)
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