Friday, May 15, 2009
Hi all… It’s been a while that I Haven’t update this blog.. I knew some of u is disappointed with us.. We would like to apologize for that mistake… As u know we currently studying in uni so assignments, projects and exams are being part of our life so paham2 sajalah ;) It was hectic but we are ready to go now…
Ok for the first post in May I would like to talk about choosing partner… Memilih BF or GF or Bakal Isteri or Suami… Phewittt~ LOLs… I still remember when my Auntie, Granpa and Granma said to me “… Lai bisai2 memilih ‘kawan’ atu…” I was smiled that time but still I don’t get it… Now living life as an adult I know how crucial that conversation was!!!
My frens came to me and told their stories.. They having all these problems such as GF cemburu tahap DEWA, BF bescandal sama Janda (no offense), Cinta 3 segi, BF panas baran (inda dpt sikit abis GF kana tampar) , be’couple’ sama tunang org (allahuakbar), kan be GF baru tapi betunang sudah, bakal tunang tidur rumah bini2 lain etc… Whoa~ wat a life… I know they have their own reasons why they do such things but don’t u ever think that this problems can be avoided at early stage.. Apa nya urg “… mencegah lebih baik dari merawat…” macam iklan Kesihatan saja but it’s true kali ah…!!! Do u agree with me…???
Ok for the first post in May I would like to talk about choosing partner… Memilih BF or GF or Bakal Isteri or Suami… Phewittt~ LOLs… I still remember when my Auntie, Granpa and Granma said to me “… Lai bisai2 memilih ‘kawan’ atu…” I was smiled that time but still I don’t get it… Now living life as an adult I know how crucial that conversation was!!!
My frens came to me and told their stories.. They having all these problems such as GF cemburu tahap DEWA, BF bescandal sama Janda (no offense), Cinta 3 segi, BF panas baran (inda dpt sikit abis GF kana tampar) , be’couple’ sama tunang org (allahuakbar), kan be GF baru tapi betunang sudah, bakal tunang tidur rumah bini2 lain etc… Whoa~ wat a life… I know they have their own reasons why they do such things but don’t u ever think that this problems can be avoided at early stage.. Apa nya urg “… mencegah lebih baik dari merawat…” macam iklan Kesihatan saja but it’s true kali ah…!!! Do u agree with me…???
So for warga singles out there or just being singles or batah sudah single uhuks uhuks here is the tips for memilih pasangan (this is what I got from my readings, stories that I’ve heard and info from internet)
Diriwayatkan oleh Imam Ibnu Majah, dari Abu Hurairah radhiallahu 'anhu, Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam bersabda, maksudnya: "Apabila datang kepada kamu peminang yang engkau puas hati dengan akhlaknya dan agamanya, maka kahwinkanlah dia. Jika tidak kamu lakukan, maka akan berlaku fitnah di atas muka bumi, dan kerosakan yang berpanjangan".
There a few aspects that u need to consider before u choose ur partner… And the aspects are JENG JENG JENG~:
1) Agama dan Akhlak
2) Paras
3) Harta
4) Keturunan
5) Ilmu
The aspects that I mentioned above are only some of the aspects but of course there are more aspects that u need to consider before u choose ur partner… Agama (religion) is the most important aspect u need to see. I knew people out there including me hehe mesti meliat paras or muka dulu kan…??? Yeah I know it’s important because dari mata lah cinta itu turun ke hati phewittt~ but wats the point being with sumone when their agama and akhlak is not good…??? Bukan kah our GF and BF atu bakal menjadi pasangan hidup tani… Hidup is only temporary and one day when the time comes we’ll ‘call’ by Allah… We need partners that can guide us to have happy life in this world and di akhirat… That’s why Keturunan, Harta (properties) and Ilmu (knowledge) also became one of the important aspects u need to consider before u choosing ur partner…
At first becinta ani semua nya indah rite..???? But when u came to marriage life everything changes… U’ll see the true traits (tabiat) of ur partner when u married with them… (btw I’m not married yet but this is wat I’ve heard) or for the couples out there yang alum kawin, after 2 or 3 yrs wat happened??? Be’ulah’ tia DALENG tani atu… Ish ish ish… I knew ada yang OK but ada yang inda OK.. For Couples out there who lives a happy life “CONGRATULATIONS” but for the couples who has problems “DON’T PANIC”.. There is always solutions for that… Even I’m not giving the solutions here u can always go to the book store and buy some motivational books written by Dr.Fadzillah Kamsah, Dr.Hm Tuah and others… OK???
That’s all for tonite… Even this post is simple but I hope u can get some useful info here… C ya.. Bye ;)
Diriwayatkan oleh Imam Ibnu Majah, dari Abu Hurairah radhiallahu 'anhu, Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam bersabda, maksudnya: "Apabila datang kepada kamu peminang yang engkau puas hati dengan akhlaknya dan agamanya, maka kahwinkanlah dia. Jika tidak kamu lakukan, maka akan berlaku fitnah di atas muka bumi, dan kerosakan yang berpanjangan".
There a few aspects that u need to consider before u choose ur partner… And the aspects are JENG JENG JENG~:
1) Agama dan Akhlak
2) Paras
3) Harta
4) Keturunan
5) Ilmu
The aspects that I mentioned above are only some of the aspects but of course there are more aspects that u need to consider before u choose ur partner… Agama (religion) is the most important aspect u need to see. I knew people out there including me hehe mesti meliat paras or muka dulu kan…??? Yeah I know it’s important because dari mata lah cinta itu turun ke hati phewittt~ but wats the point being with sumone when their agama and akhlak is not good…??? Bukan kah our GF and BF atu bakal menjadi pasangan hidup tani… Hidup is only temporary and one day when the time comes we’ll ‘call’ by Allah… We need partners that can guide us to have happy life in this world and di akhirat… That’s why Keturunan, Harta (properties) and Ilmu (knowledge) also became one of the important aspects u need to consider before u choosing ur partner…
At first becinta ani semua nya indah rite..???? But when u came to marriage life everything changes… U’ll see the true traits (tabiat) of ur partner when u married with them… (btw I’m not married yet but this is wat I’ve heard) or for the couples out there yang alum kawin, after 2 or 3 yrs wat happened??? Be’ulah’ tia DALENG tani atu… Ish ish ish… I knew ada yang OK but ada yang inda OK.. For Couples out there who lives a happy life “CONGRATULATIONS” but for the couples who has problems “DON’T PANIC”.. There is always solutions for that… Even I’m not giving the solutions here u can always go to the book store and buy some motivational books written by Dr.Fadzillah Kamsah, Dr.Hm Tuah and others… OK???
That’s all for tonite… Even this post is simple but I hope u can get some useful info here… C ya.. Bye ;)
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